Everyone has their own, and you have to discuss these boundaries before any BDSM play. H is for Hard Limits Hard limits are sexual acts that are off-limits. This is not the same thing as a golden shower. It’s high time for the BDSM community to reclaim this word from Donald Trump, who, may I remind you, allegedly paid sex workers to pee on a bed that Obama slept in out of spite. G is for Golden Showers A golden shower is when you lovingly shower your partner with your piss. Foot fetishists may enjoy worshiping a foot, kissing it, smelling it, massaging it, getting a footjob, licking it, sucking on toes, or ( actually) getting stepped on. There’s often cuddling and always conversation kinksters need love too.į is for Foot Fetish One of the most common fetishes out there, a foot fetish is an attraction-often a need-for feet. BDSM releases endorphins, which can lead to both dominants and submissives experiencing a “drop.” Aftercare can help prevent that. The dominant partner may bring the submissive ice for any bruises, but it’s important to know that aftercare involves emotional care as well as physical. Whatever you're into, just make sure to snuggle and practice lots of aftercare when it's all said and done, especially if anyone involved is a painslut and needs ice after some impact play.Īt press time, “kink” is not a language you can learn on Duolingo, so here’s a handy glossary of some of the most common BDSM terms, from A to Z.Ī is for Aftercare Aftercare is the practice of checking in with one another after a scene (or “play session,” a.k.a., the time in which the BDSM happens) to make sure all parties feel nice and chill about what just went down.
Beyond that, there’s a whole language to describe the consensual power exchange practices that take place under the BDSM umbrella. Since all that terminology can be intimidating for newcomers, let’s start with the basics: “BDSM” stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism-the core pillars of kinky fun.
The world of BDSM contains not only its own sex acts (Is smelling a foot sex? Sure, if it gets you off!), but its own highly-robust vocabulary, too.
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